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The art of compromise
All Woman, Relationships
 on August 16, 2016

The art of compromise

By VANESSA E CHAMBERS 

So you have found yourself a partner who has a different approach to sex than you do. They are more adventurous and willing to try new things, things that you would have never dreamt of doing. You want to stand your ground and have then respect your sexual boundaries, but you also have to keep in mind that sex isn’t just about pleasing yourself, it is also about pleasing your partner.

Would you be willing to compromise when it comes to sex?

Shelly:

It all depends on what I’m asked to compromise on and what body part comes into play. There are just some things I won’t do for love or money.

Winston:

I’m open to trying anything to please my woman as long as she is open to pleasing me. Sex is a team effort so if one team member isn’t carrying out their share of the work it becomes unstable and leads to issues and sexual frustration. And to be honest, what you can’t get at home, there is always someone outside who is more than willing to do what you want.

Mia:

This is why I think things like this should be discussed during dating. People need to know what they are getting into. I’m willing to try new things but I have my limits.

Shaquile:

A lot of women don’t believe in compromising during sex yet they have the most demands.

Kayidann:

There is a thin line between compromise and comfort zone. I feel safer in my comfort zone, so it is going to take some time for me to do certain things.

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