Can you trust your best friend with your man?
Essentially, trust is one of the most powerful foundations of a relationship. Loyalty is also expected not only of your mate, but from those who you have shared your life with over the years – your good friends. But unfortunately, many women have ‘best friends’ but not loyal best friends. This realization has been an issue for some women who have seen their relationships implode, because their best friends and their mates got together.1. Define both relationships and separate where necessary2. Discuss how you feel with both individuals separately3. Set boundaries and let them be clear
Is it totally a no-no to leave your man around your best friend? Here are some to-do’s as you contemplate this.
This simply means that you should keep both relationships separate, with respect shown to each party. If you feel even the slightest bit uncomfortable leaving them alone, it is best to separate your relationships.
Maybe you can’t trust both of them around each other because of your own insecurities, and after talking with both you may realize this so you can then do a self-check and work on you.
It is always best to never cross lines when it comes to your friendships and your intimate relationships. Some things are best not talked about or discussed. It is not about being secretive, it is about being respectful and ensuring both parties understand their place in your life.
