Don’t blame the woman on the side
UNFORTUNATELY there are those unhealthy “situationships” where two women are involved with one man with both believing they are the only one. Most times, one woman is the main woman and the other is the “side chick”. What happens many times when both women are made aware of each other is that they choose to attack each other.
Truth is, most times the side chick believes she is the only one because that is what she has been fed, and vice versa. The common denominator/wrongdoer in this situation is the man. But women are so quick to fight each other that they often ignore this fact.
My advice? If you are in a committed relationship and months or even years down the line you find out that you are one among a million, simply walk away. Choose class over anger because what class and grace do is set you apart from the rest.
It is indeed human nature to want to lash out in anger when unfair acts are committed against us, but fighting the woman won’t change the reality, and fighting your man won’t either. Playing the blame game will only make the situation worse.
So, rather, decide to walk away with grace and class as cheating is unacceptable.
