Young men drained at 25
RECENTLY at a popular hair salon, a woman was venting that her man, who is all of 25, fell asleep mid-coitus. She ranted that she thought something about her had turned him off and caused this, but then a few days later she found something in his apartment that shocked her. Her man was on Viagra.
It is expected that a man of 25 years should be able to “manage the work”. However, in recent times, there has been a high demand for sexual performance medication on the market, and the age group requesting them is most shocking.
What has caused this?
Young men are chasing “the game”, and what has resulted from this is that the game has overrun them. Sex is seen as a sport for the younger generation – who can “dun di most gyal” and because of this, the young men are burnt out at an age when they should be filled with vigour and sexual endurance.
What can be done?
1. Young guys need to understand that they are a limited resource and as much as the media pushes that promiscuity is okay when young and single, it will run your body into the ground if not controlled. Always remember the golden rule – whatever is done in excess will surely destroy you.
2. Plan your sexual adventures. Everything in your life should be planned and a cap put on excesses. Unfortunately, many men have no limits and so what has happened is the embarrassment of not being able to achieve a sturdy erection.
3. Stick to one lover! Young men and even the older ones are guilty of having several women and this has relegated their sex game to zero per cent. Staying with one partner is also the perfect mechanism to curtail your sexual adventures.
