Should he pay your bills?
A man who doesn’t see it as priority to not only invest in his woman but ensure he supports her financially without her even asking is seen by many as a waste of time. In this scenario, the man is deemed to be the provider, and although times have changed and women are now top-notch CEOs, a man is still a man, which means that he should ensure that his woman is well kept and has all she wants and needs.1. Talk about it. You need to let your man know what his role is expected to be in the relationship.2. Be the change agent. Give gifts to be the reflection of what your man should be to you. Let no accusation be thrown your way that you are no better.
“I do not mind taking care of my woman although she works. I enjoy making my woman feel like a princess so I go above and beyond to wow her,” says SL.
It’s a view held by many men too – that not because a woman is employed and independent, she should not expect to be taken care of.
So what should women do?
Men should remember too, that for some women, support goes beyond the financial.
Says DM: “As a successful female entrepreneur, I don’t need anything from a man other than emotional and intimate support because I worked my way to where I am today.”