When she supports him
There is absolutely nothing embarrassing or wrong if a woman desires to aid or assist her man financially if he is currently unemployed, and there is absolutely nothing wrong if she chooses not to as means to push him to provide. There is a huge problem, however, if she financially supports a man who has no intention of getting a job, and she continues because she fears he will leave her and move on. Rushell: I will never take my money and take care of nuh man! Man must work and provide.Cindie: I would if he is worth it and he is ambitious.Max: Some girl a real mascot to think if you take care of a man, him a guh wife yuh!Rachel: I did that and he left me the moment he met another woman with more money. Never again!
What are readers’ views on the issue?
A woman can help her man if he has stumbled into a ditch or has walked into a corner where he is unable to provide as he used to. Once she is in a position to help, there is absolutely nothing wrong because what that woman is doing is strengthening her man so the relationship can blossom into something strong and beautiful.
Yes, there is the lingering fear of helping a man to a point and another woman is given the opportunity to effortlessly enjoy the rewards, and yes, there are many cases where women are fearful of assisting in funding men’s dreams and they turn into monsters. However, a relationship should be built on the premise of love and when love is present and true, fear should not be factor even if it is lingering over the relationship.
