3 sure ways to ruin a relationship

Building a healthy relationship takes great effort on the part of both parties involved. It is more than romance and being committed; it is just as fragile as taking care of a plant – it needs tender loving and intense care. You must know the likes and dislikes of your partner and you must ensure their needs are fully met. Building a relationship is as intense as building and maintaining a successful career.1. Not being honest about who you are2. Going too fast/too slow3. Unfaithfulness

Unfortunately, many people are ignorant as to what it takes, and many have ruined a potential lifetime bond due to these three deal-breakers.

In the beginning, it can be understood that two people are putting their best foot forward to impress each other, but after a few dates, you really should be comfortable enough to say to the person you are considering giving your time and ultimately your body to – “Hey, I am a moody person. Sometimes I like to be alone…” It is best to be clear-cut about your personality because what you don’t want is a case where someone is expressing their disappointment in you.

If you are planning a wedding with someone you just met online, you are indeed going too fast, and if you have been in a relationship for several years and you’re still deciding if your partner is the best fit, you are moving a bit too slow. Either of the two is extreme and a sure way to diminish what it potentially could be.

There are some people who choose to forgive and work on the brokenness, but there are some who find it impossible to move past it because it is so hurtful. Unfaithfulness can kill the relationship for men in particular, as while a woman will look past the foul act and still remain with the man, many men cannot do this. So once a man finds out his woman was unfaithful, it is a done deal – over.