On buying the cow and drinking milk
It’s oft advised by those who have been burnt that testing a cow before purchase is essential. In fact, even counsellors have been selling the idea that those who live together and experiment before marriage have longer lasting unions. RR: Johnaii: KC:
The bottom line is that intimacy is a very important aspect of a relationship, and if there is anything preventing optimal engagement, it all can go downhill. What has been the experience?
As a man, I can’t under any circumstance marry a woman never having known her intimately first. I would be crazy. What if she doesn’t feel like how she looks? I have to test-drive!
I was celibate with my wife and it was magical the night I finally got her. It is risky, but if the woman is worth it, you can hold out.
I am religious and I actually agree with testing the waters first because of experience. I was madly in love with this guy at my church. We secretly went out and he took me back to his house and as we were about to get it on, I noticed that he was more on the microscopic side. I was so happy I found this out because what if I had married him? I would have to cheat!
