Signs you’re in the right relationship
FROM a young age, many people create a mental list of the characteristics that their ‘perfect person’ must possess. But then experience teaches them that the perfect person does not and will never exist, because no one is perfect. But this does not mean that you will not find a partner you can settle down with. Relationship counsellor Wayne Powell identifies signs below that you can stop searching.
1. There is a high degree of connectedness between the partners
You are at a good place on the intimate, commitment and physical levels. The emotional connection must be deep. You should feel linked to each other and be compatible with each other.
2. You communicate effectively and have high regard and respect for each other
Communication and respect are key things in a relationship. You should be able to speak with your partner about anything and resolve issues amicably. You must respect each other and also each other’s opinions and decisions.
3. You are best friends and can freely share your high and low moments with each other
You know you are in the right relationship when you can confide in each other about personal matters and not worry about your partner spilling your secrets.
4. You have each other’s back and can depend on each other for emotional support
You should be able to rely on each other for support in all situations at all times. You should always be able to count on your significant other to be supportive and have confidence in you.
5. You can be yourself around your partner and don’t have to put on a performance
Being involved with someone should never mean that you have to change who you are. If you are comfortable being yourself with your partner in your private space and when you’re out together in public, this is a good sign that you are in the right relationship.
6. You enjoy each other’s company and yearn to be together when you are apart
You must love being around your partner and doing things together, whether it’s watching his favourite game or your favourite movie. If something happens and you must be away from each other for a while, you should miss each other and long for your partner’s company.
