The absolute best parts of being single … and being coupled up

RESEARCHERS have found that those who are coupled up excel in their careers and tend to experience success in all walks of life.

On the other hand, some say that being single gives you the opportunity to focus on yourself, improve your health, build your self-esteem, sleep better, and be the best person you can possibly be.

Which path should you choose? While the answer lies in what you desire for your life, both states have an equal number of perks and problems. It’s all a question of what you can live with.

Below, to ease the decision-making process and cast aside any doubts you may have about which path to choose, All Woman readers share the absolute best parts of being single and being coupled up.

Winstonieth Thomas, 24, single:

When I’m single I can do whatever I want, whenever I want, without having to consider someone else’s feelings or having to deal with their opinions. I can live for me. Coupled up, I guess the best part is knowing that someone is there for you and always in your corner, someone who will listen to you even if the issue is insignificant.

Natassia Noble, 21, single:

Being single is knowing there is nobody to cheat on you and not feeling insecure about yourself or the relationship. Also, having alone time and time to focus on yourself. In a relationship you have to be considering another person’s feelings and thoughts. On the other hand, being coupled up, you have somebody to relate to, you have a friend. It’s good to have somebody to talk to, lean on, share things.

Al Palmer, 35, married:

When you’re single there is nobody to ask you where you are going and when you are coming home. When you are coupled up, married, or in a committed relationship, the best part is having someone who you can be yourself around without trying to impress or accommodate.

Marvia Brown, 22, single:

You can let the bush grow. You don’t have to think about what you’re eating, and expenses are not as great as when you’re with someone. Coupled up comes down to companionship, moments when you get to bond.

Ricardo Johnson, 26, married:

Being single you have the freedom to do whatever you want without thinking about anyone’s feelings. Coupled up, you get to share each other’s feelings and experience your own unique form of love.

Alexis Allen, 30, married:

Being single is getting to know yourself freely. You don’t have to worry about someone else witnessing your various emotions. You have the freedom to come and go as you wish and you don’t have to think about anyone else, or joint finances. When you’re coupled up, someone always has your back. Knowing you are never alone is also very reassuring. Someone is always there for you to call on. Growing together is always good too. When you’re able to accomplish things together and share huge moments together — that’s the best part.

—Kimberley Hibbert