What’s the biggest secret someone you dated kept from you?
A part of bonding with your significant other is confiding things that you would not dare tell anyone else. But the reality is that no one spills all of his or her secrets. Even when people have known their partners for a long time, there are still some skeletons that they do not want to get out of the closet. All Woman asked various individuals to share the biggest secret that someone they dated had hidden from them.
MD:
Well, thankfully there was no secret that I discovered about any of my exes. But I have a friend who was dating this girl for about two months. He went on the road one day and saw her with her friend and a baby. It turned out to be her baby, but she had told him that she didn’t have any kids. Good thing they weren’t dating for long.
Sammy:
While we were a couple, my boyfriend got his ex pregnant. I didn’t know until she was about six months along. After we broke up I found out that it was the same girl who called my phone once and was causing problems, and they were still involved when we were together.
DJ:
My ex-girlfriend was sick and I had to go to her place to get her some things. I came across a money stash and her bank books. I got upset because I thought she’d stolen the money. She admitted that she worked as an escort to send herself through the last part of high school and university for her bachelor’s and master’s degrees.
Michael:
I dated a white girl very briefly. I met her at a hotel. She told me everything about herself except for the fact that she was bisexual and loved kinky stuff. I saw some disturbing photos on her phone.
Bobby:
A long time ago I was engaged to be married. Halfway through planning for the wedding, I discovered that my bride-to-be had not one, but two children that I didn’t know about.
Rick:
My girl and I were trying to have kids. During this time, she told me that she had experienced three miscarriages. But then she had a falling out with her sister, who revealed that she couldn’t have children because of an abortion she had as a teenager. I was upset to know that she lied about having the miscarriages.
V:
My adult daughter’s mom tried to hide the fact that she had children before we met. By mistake I found out about two of them. We were out one day when one of them called her mom. She slapped the child and said, “Yuh nuh hear seh you nuh fi call me mummy!” The worst part is that it was a while after that incident that I found out that she had actually had four children — not just two.
Pinky:
My ex-fiance lied to me about his childhood and where he grew up. I didn’t know the truth until we got engaged. I can’t understand why he lied, because his family members are nice people and I didn’t see anything wrong with where they lived. I ended the relationship because if you can lie about that, you can lie about anything.
