Text stalking
Everyone who is in a relationship will, at intervals, want to check in on their mates throughout the day. But when does checking in become stalking? How much contact with your mate throughout the day is normal?AG:Cam:
My man texts me right throughout the day and then at night he wants to stay up and talk. He recently confessed to me that he is just ensuring that all I think about is him, and that no other man is slipping in. I thought that was crazy and based on what’s happening today, I think I want to call it off. I can’t live in a prison because he is insecure.
Andrew:
If a girl a ring ring off mi phone, she a go get bun, straight! I was talking to this girl some months ago and a stalker thing she deh pon so mi haffi call it a day. She text me and all have taxi a trail mi fi see if mi deh weh mi tell har. No sah!
My ex wanted me to tell him my every move and I thought that was creepy. Then again, he was twice my age and I guess he felt he was a side man. But I had to cut things off because it was too much. I have to report at work, there is no way I am doing that in a relationship.
Robert:
I have no issue with my girl calling me a lot. It tells me where her feelings are regarding me. She can stalk me all she wants – it is my girl!
Natalie:
I have no issues with my man being jealous and stalking me. I love it – just don’t abuse me. I have no issues telling my man where I am and what I am doing.
