When he gets secretive with his cell
Technology has been the cause of many break-ups, with many couples claiming that the intrusion has been detrimental to their relationships. Whether it is that your beau spends too much time on social media, or hides his phone from you all the time, these habits can seriously hamper a relationship’s progress.
What would you do if he refuses to answer certain calls around you? Is he cheating, or are you just being jealous?
MJ:
He’s cheating. My man knows that I don’t make play these jokes so if he dares, he knows I am out. Why wouldn’t you want to answer your phone around your partner? It means you are hiding something – plain and simple.
Charlene:
No, it doesn’t necessarily mean that he’s cheating. One night an unknown number was calling and I refused to answer and my man thought I was up to something when I was simply just too paranoid to answer. So I wouldn’t be upset at my man for not answering. If I see that he knows the number and is acting shady, then it becomes a problem. But adults need to be adults and handle each situation with respect and sense.
Jean:
Yes, a man is cheating when he refuses to answer his phone. I don’t see why you can’t talk to whosoever if you are so faithful. I would see that as a huge red flag.
David:
As a man, I am entitled to answer and reject all calls. No woman is going to use that to judge me. It is rubbish!
RT:
It all depends. I wouldn’t judge my man, but if I see a particular number calling too often, I would be suspicious. Then again, you can’t trust these men because my ex put ‘Andre’ as the contact when his side chick was calling him.