When he looks at other women…
All Woman, Relationships
 on April 12, 2017

When he looks at other women…

By Miss Kes 

Men are naturally lustful to sight as opposed to women who are moved by words. Knowing this, how much should you be concerned by your man who ogles other women?

Deidre:

My man loves to stare at curvy women with big butts and I am just floored by it because I am this skinny female with none of the above, so I am wondering why he is with me. I am not threatened though because it is not like he “brukking” off his neck to stare. He is human with two eyes to see so he will glance and that is it.

Joe:

My woman has got no issues if I look on other females and I call that confidence. I admire that about her. She doesn’t get upset over petty matters. Once I am not disrespecting her or cheating, she is fine with whatever.

MJ:

I think it is totally disrespectful for a man to be with his woman on a date, or is driving and staring at other females. It suggests to the other female that the woman he is with is clearly not enough and that is exactly why these side chicks believe they are special. This needs to stop and it is surely something all women should be concerned about.

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