Waiting patiently for his divorce
It is a sad reality, but a lot of women have resorted to being ‘side chicks’ to married men who have promised to divorce their wives and eventually marry these women on the side. Many wait patiently for years and years, never to see this promise realized.How good of an idea is this? Would you patiently wait for the love of your life to divorce his wife?Mariah:Hell no! These men are liars and they simply want to have their cake and eat it. I am single now and I’d rather stay single until I find the man to love and appreciate me, than settle to being a side chick.CG:No. I would never wish this for any woman. These married men tell the young women these things to get them excited when there is nothing to be excited about because they are not leaving their wives and that is the reality.MC:I know of someone who has been waiting on her man to leave his wife for just about ten years now. It is really sad because she is beautiful, educated, and a great catch for any man and it really hurts me and other friends who know of the affair because we’ve watched her suffer through the years being his secret. It is totally degrading and I think it is a bad idea. I would tell women to avoid these situations.Anthony:It is possible that the man may be separated and about to divorce. Not all men are liars and users, ladies. You still have a few out there who are good men. I was separated for several months and I started seeing this woman and she waited on my situation to be sorted out and we are married and she is now pregnant.RK:No man will tell me to wait and I do that. There’s not one man in the world good enough for me to do that.