Falling into hate
It is sad to watch a once happily married couple tearing at each other in divorce, especially if you had been privy to their romance at the start of the relationship and saw how in love they once were. But love can quickly turn into dislike, especially if the embers of the fire are not stoked.How does the slow descent begin?AD:As a divorcée, I can say that after a while when people are living with each other, one party can feel neglected and taken for granted and that is where the cookie crumbled for me. I was taken for granted as my ex-husband wouldn’t take me out but he was taking other women out in our family car. Terry:My marriage became unglued when I noticed him staying out late and telling me he was working late, until one night I stalked him and saw him in his office with a young female having sex. I made sure I videotaped it as evidence. I hated him from that moment and right now, we are getting a divorce. Trace:He cheated and that was enough to hate. He would beg me to not leave him while he was busy with some other woman. JK:I found a receipt showing that my man was going to hotels the hours he said he was working late. Jenelle:He lied to me. He told me he went out to chill at some sports bar and I found a receipt in his pocket that he was at a strip club. I decided that was it. I hate liars and cheats.