Social media stalking
How much of your mate’s activities on social media do you pay attention to? Are you always looking on over their shoulder to see what they type? Do you request the password to their accounts and occasionally check to see what they’re up to? Or do you just let them be, because everyone deserves their privacy?
Stalking and lurking are activities as old as time, often explained as one mate’s attempt to secure security and love. Do you spy on your mate?
Kimberly:
I do watch my man, but only when he is on WhatsApp while talking to me. Because if you are deep into what I am saying, you shouldn’t be online at the same time.
JW:
I stalk my man because I need to know I am making the right decision. He is not a talker so for me to get information, I have to set him up with my friends to see his reaction. So far, he is passing all the tests and no, I am not crazy. I love him but I need to be sure.
Tamara:
I hack into my man’s social media accounts to see what he is up to. He has no idea and I will make him no wiser until I gather all my information. So far, I noticed he talks to this particular woman from Facebook almost every day and he never messages me those compliments. It is always about what he wants for dinner with me, but he finds it easy to say nice things to another woman who is beautiful and sexy. A lot of women out there are facing this. We stay home and take good care of our men and they are out there giving the side chicks the best of the best.
GC:
I think it is a very bad idea because you will see things you will regret and I am speaking from experience.
SM:
Sometimes it is necessary because these men are too shady, so a little digging will give you all the information you need to fry them.