Chance after chance after chance…
“Everyday the bucket go well, one day di bottom a go drop out!” This Jamaican proverb is one many women can relate to, when they reach a stage where they have given their men too many chances and are unwilling to continue.
Because women are naturally emotional, they are more likely the ones to hold tight to a relationship even when the road is rocky. But once a woman reaches the peak, it is a wrap, as the women below share.
Shelly:
I stopped caring after a while of being taken for granted. I stopped calling, texting, cooking, cleaning. I honestly didn’t give a damn if he cheated or anything because I was sick of him taking me for granted. It had reached the point where he wasn’t even interested in taking me out anymore. He just wanted me home cleaning and washing. I got sick of it and now he is doing exactly what I desire!
JJ:
I gave my man so many chances that I am out of them. I forgave him for cheating, for getting three women pregnant, and even for transmitting a STI to me. I am exhausted. I have been nothing but kind and faithful to this man. Two weeks ago when I found out that I contracted pelvic inflammatory disease because of him, I came to the conclusion that I’m done with him.
HC:
I am still giving my man a chance to apologise for emptying out my bank account which I gave him access to because we have been together for years. I recently found a receipt in his car of him buying female clothes and it wasn’t for me. I actually moved out of his apartment because I am tired of his games and that was it for me. I am done.