On begging credit and other things…
Having a huge appetite for the material can surely put a major dent in a potential relationship. Whether this is for food, phone cards, or help with the rent, requesting favours, especially when it’s too early in the relationship, can be a major turn-off, as the men below share:
Jermaine:
I took a young miss to the movies for our first date and initially everything was going great until intermission. She literally ordered one of each item on the menu. I feel bad saying this, but I told her I was going to bathroom and that was basically my escape. I never called her after that and she sent some very nasty words in texts to me. It was a turn-off.
Andre:
It is a sure way to kill the vibes. Some girl nuh have nuh conscience. You just meet them and them start ask fi phone card and money fi do hair and nails. It is too much and to be honest. If a woman tries this, I’m out.
FJ:
I don’t mind if a girl loves food, but if all she thinks about is that, that’s a problem for my pocket and I didn’t really sign up for that when I was looking for a relationship.
T:
If a woman beggy-beggy, that relationship is going no further. My woman must be independent and that will make me want to do anything for her.
JB:
It will turn off any man. Everything must be in moderation. A woman must understand that there are levels to a relationship. Don’t expose the man to certain things too soon or that man will run and never come back.
