Spicing things up?
After several years, couples who are interested in maintaining their partners’ interest may seek to spice things up. Sometimes this is welcome, sometimes not.
We asked women, how did things change after being together for several years, and what did your partner do about it?
Georgette:
The sex changed. Initially he was very romantic. Now he is aggressive and is asking me to bend my body in some styles only snakes can do. I am not sure what happened but surely this wasn’t the man I met.
Nicole:
The sex was different after a few months because we both became comfortable with each other. It improved because now I can be me and he can unleash his dragon. It is more aggressive but which woman wants a boring sex life? No complaints over here!
AL:
My man started to instruct me in bed which was a bit weird for me since we had a very quiet sex life before. Now he is telling me to move that leg there, turn there, do this and that. It is way different to the point where I wondered if he was having an affair. I wasn’t used to that.
Ashley:
I came home, went into my bedroom, and saw a pole installed. I freaked out and called my husband and he told me that we needed some spice. Now, my husband has been very conservative from day one, and after three years of marriage he wanted me to dance on a pole. I flipped out on him. I wasn’t about to be any stripper.
Azera:
The sex was different after several months but I am loving it even more now. It was a bit predictable in the beginning. Now he is surprising me and I am loving it!
