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7 things a man who loves you won’t let you do
All Woman, Relationships
 on January 22, 2018

7 things a man who loves you won’t let you do

By Miss Kes 

You may very well be thinking that your man loves you to the core, but there are some red flags that may resemble love, but in fact spell “control”.

Below are seven things a man who loves you would never let you do.

1. Drop God

No one has the right to tell you to switch your beliefs or twist your morals to suit their needs. Once a man is telling you that church time should be limited, it is a red flag to run.

2. Drop your family

Once a man is demanding that you to stay away from your family, take note. That is your family who made you into the person you are. If someone truly loves you, they will never limit your access to the people who love and care about you the most.

3. Become his servant

A man who loves you will not sit back and relax and watch you cook, clean and wash and not offer his assistance.

4. Have physical intimacy without protection

Under no circumstance should a man force you to have sex if you don’t want to, and without a condom. A man will respect your choice to protect yourself.

5. Forget your dreams

A man who loves you will support your dreams full-time, no question about it.

6. Force motherhood

He should not force you to have a baby when you state that you are not ready. It is your body and you have all right to decide on when you’re ready for motherhood.

 7. Change who you are

If someone cannot accept you as are, they do not deserve a space in your life.

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