Cheating on the ‘perfect’ partner
There have been instances where people cheat for absolutely no reason, and even they will admit that everything about their relationship was perfect before the betrayal. But why? The men below tell of actual instances where they cheated on a “perfect” woman and ended up living with guilt and regret.
Marlon:
To be honest, I was dating a young lady several months ago and yes, I cheated. To be straight up, I still cannot figure out why because my woman did everything a woman is supposed to do in a relationship. Now I am single and cannot find someone even close to her.
DM:
I cheated not once, but many times on my girlfriend. And she is actually perfect. Any man in their right senses would marry her in a minute and it has been six years and still I cannot stop cheating or find it in me to get engaged. I am just confused about it.
Duwane:
I did, several years ago. My wife is now filing for divorce after not just finding out about the infidelity, but that I have three outside children. I do feel messed up about it and I know for sure no other woman will love me like that, but there is absolutely nothing I can do at this point but to move forward.
Anthony:
I think every man messes up one or more times and I have, and yes, I regret it. But I just take it as a lesson and move on. I am now married with four children. I would never think to repeat my past. I have hurt too many perfect women and my wife is getting the very best I can give – love and faithfulness.
Cameron:
I did a messed up thing to a perfect woman. I had to migrate in 2009 and I had promised my then woman that I would eventually file for her, but when I got overseas I met someone else and we got intimate and she ended up pregnant. I hid that from my woman in Jamaica for about two years and it tore her up when she found out. The girl in Canada posted a picture of us and tagged me on Facebook. It was messy and I feel it for my girl in Jamaica even now.