School’s out, the kids are home (still) — what now?
Based on your electricity bill, summer has not been cancelled
and you still have no clue what you are going to do with the children for the
long holidays. Many vacation spots, summer camps and pools have closed due to
coronavirus and despite wishful thinking, it’s not leaving any time soon.
So what are we to do with the children who are
restless, bored out of their minds and eating us out of house and home? All is
not lost as there are still some activities that are kid-friendly while being
cost-effective.
Your first source of assistance should be the grandparents’
house. Whether they are close by or in the country, when it doubt, lean on your
parents. They have much to share including surviving in and appreciating a
world before gadgetry took over. It can also be fun for them, satisfying for the
old folks and a relief for you. Let them eat their snacks for a while.
If they are not an option, get creative. Think of your
child or children’s strengths and interests and play to them. This makes it easier
to customise and tailor activities for them individually that will not only
keep them occupied but may even have them learn a thing or two.
If your son or daughter is good with their hands, a
project that they can dedicate at least part of their summer to is to build
something that they can look at and feel a level of pride. If you are tactile
and can swing a hammer, why not make the building of a tree house a task you can
work on together? There are dozens of tutorials on how to do the basics of
knocking together a square or rectangle frame and material should not be a problem
as sourcing old crates is simple enough or ask furniture makers for discarded
bits and pieces. What counts is the effort of teamwork and if you are daunted
by a tree house then start off smaller and construct a doghouse for your pet.
If being outdoors and getting dirty is not for your
child, do not despair. Once again think about what they like to do or watch on
television. If it’s cooking pull out your old cooking book or better yet have
them browse YouTube for simple dishes they always wanted to try themselves and
then head to the supermarket for the ingredients. Have you not seen what kids
can do on Junior MasterChef? Age is no longer an excuse for them to be spending
all day playing mind-zapping video games. Get them engaged. There may be some
initial protest as children see everything as work and work is a four letter
word but stay the course and allow them to be great in their own small way.