Lately you’ve been feeling neglected because despite donning your sexist lingerie, hubby is fast asleep. You definitely have the fire but his desire is not blazing at all. You have all of these thoughts rustling around your head but before you jump to conclusion and write a cheque that you cannot cash, consider all the possibilities.

Living in a

global crisis such as this is enough to kill anyone’s vibe and the uncertainty

of job security, health and the threat of isolation plus the fear of the

unknown can drive many people to the edge. There is nothing sexy about a life

where the future is so hazy and unpredictable. The reasons below explore some

possible causes for his seeming rejection.

Also you should

probably just bite the bullet and just sit down and communicate with him. Speculation

has never solved any relationship issue.

1. He maybe going

through a bout of depression: Hey, men get depressed too.

2. He is

stressed and therefore ‘Little Johnny’ is not working: And instead of telling

you about it, he is too ashamed so he avoids sex altogether.

3. He is

getting it elsewhere: A very real and distinct possibility.

4. Constant

nagging is a turn off: No one wants to be arguing all day and then turn around

and expected to be in the mood.

5. Low

testosterone: He may just not be up to it very often.

6. He no longer

finds you attractive: Ouch! Over time people change, unfortunately.

7. He has

gained weight: This has been proven to affect libido.

8. There may be

an underlying medical condition: His body may simply not be functionally connecting.

9. He is bored:

You may have grown apart more than you realise.