Dear Editor,

In recent times it has become increasingly evident that the moral compass, designed to provide ethical guidance to our young males, has been severely compromised, and in extreme cases, entirely obliterated.

Numerous incidents serve as alarming indicators of the substantial decline in empathy and consideration among our boys. Consequently, society cannot evade culpability in this matter.

The recent brutal assault on a student at BB Coke High School, resulting from a minor misstep, vividly illustrates the precipitous fall in moral values. Regrettably, sympathies surfaced only post the egregious act, underscoring the need for proactive measures rather than reactive responses from society.

Societal norms wield substantial influence over our daily conduct. These norms shape the upbringing of our children and dictate the fundamental principles to which they are taught to adhere. However, some of these norms, in the long run, prove more detrimental than beneficial. For instance, young males are conditioned to adopt a militant and unyielding demeanour. They are groomed to suppress emotions and project an aura of invincibility. In our culture, a male exhibiting vulnerability or shedding tears is perceived as a sign of weakness. Yet the adverse repercussions of these teachings are all too evident, manifesting in the deficiency of conflict resolution skills among our boys.

A more balanced approach is imperative. It is essential to teach our boys to apologise and articulate their emotions in a manner that neither emasculates nor humiliates them. As adults, it is our responsibility to exemplify these attitudes, especially within the sanctity of our homes, which serves as the primary crucible of learning. Conflict resolution, a priceless skill, must be instilled in our young men, alongside lessons on the significance of courtesy, decorum, and respect.

In the pursuit of nurturing a generation of young men who exemplify empathy, understanding, and moral fortitude, let us heed the words of Mahatma Gandhi, who profoundly said, “You must be the change you want to see in the world.”

As responsible members of society, it is not merely our duty but our solemn obligation to instil in our young males the values of compassion, emotional intelligence, and respect. By embodying these virtues ourselves and guiding the next generation with wisdom and integrity, we can mend the broken moral compass and pave the way for a future in which empathy reigns supreme and the legacy of kindness illuminates the path ahead.

Kyrone King

Educator

St Elizabeth Technical High School

iamkyrone@gmail.com