Subtle signs you’re doing nothing for him

Sex brings a man alive both literally and figuratively, and so if he is not enjoying the romps in the sack with you, you should notice for sure. Below are some of the tell-tale signs women have noticed.

Patricia, 32:

If I notice that during the act he is unusually quiet, then I know that something is up. When a man is silent during sex, this is cause for concern.

Debra, 28:

If he insists that he has something else to do right after then you’ll know for sure. When it’s 1:00 in the morning and he wants to leave, that’s your sign right there.

Susanne, 37:

My man is the one who is the first to want to introduce things he thinks will spice up our sex life. And so if he is a bit withdrawn when it comes to wanting to explore new things, then I know he is getting bored and beginning to look elsewhere.

Sharon, 30:

If after a round of lovemaking and he is still tense, then obviously my job is not done. And worse, if I offer another round and he turns me down, then I know.

Karen, 39:

I often hear from other women about their sexless relationships and to tell you the truth, I couldn’t relate until recently. He is no longer the Long Distance Stulla he once was, and so I think that has affected his confidence somewhat. Not even sweat him sweating or even breathing too hard when him finish. What I notice is that he just wants to watch TV right afterwards too. Talk about a mood killer.

Diane, 42:

When my girlfriends and I talk, we talk about the importance of looking at your man’s physical response when he is having sex. When he is not enjoying it, you can sense as a woman that there is no connection between the two of you. There is no eye contact, he doesn’t say your name, or he is constantly shuffling around on the bed trying to find a different position in order to reach his peak.

Cynthia, 39:

Every woman should know her man inside out. I think it is obvious if you offer him a second round and he declines with no signs of regret in his eyes. Most men will at least try and rise to the occasion but if he is not interested, he is not interested. Also, if he is a bit standoffish afterwards, that is a big clue.