Want a man? Work on that wish list
Many women have made wish lists of what they want in their men, working out every aspect of their perfect mates down to a science, from personality down to shoe size. But comedian and author of books such as Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, Steve Harvey, jokingly said that a woman who is looking for perfection is asking to date God.
He noted that women need to have realistic wish lists because sometimes who they want on their wish lists isn’t necessarily going to be a match for them. Wanting to nab a millionaire, for example, means that you have to be who a millionaire wants; and wanting a man to bring you to orgasm every time means that you should also be able to do the same for him.
Can you be everything to a man the way you want him to be to you? You can’t want everything and not be willing to sacrifice to get it, Harvey says.