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What she’s really thinking about during SEX
What she’s really thinkingabout during SEX
All Woman, Relationships
 on November 7, 2015

What she’s really thinking about during SEX

BY KIMBERLEY HIBBERT 

IT’S commonplace for most people when engaging in consensual sexual activity to be totally in the moment, writhe in the throes of passion, experience sexual euphoria, and simply enjoy the act.

But many people instead think about the stresses of the world, and may even use the time to plan the following day in their heads. Below women confess to All Woman what they really think about during sex.

Adrianna I:

I loved NSYNC as a teen and the last time my mind wandered while having sex, it went to that group. I was bored and started wondering why the group couldn’t work out.

Maylenne J:

Somehow, I always want to poo while getting it on. I usually wonder why my bowels are moving at that time.

Emily M:

Why don’t you just head downtown and get it over with?

Nicole R:

I always get a urinary tract infection from sex, so each time I’m having sex I wonder if I’m going to have issues peeing the following morning.

Sharlene G:

My mind drifted to work once and I remembered a joke my co-workers gave and I started giggling, right in the middle of it. I laughed harder because he started asking if he was tickling me.

Samantha L:

I’m wondering whether I fed Lucky or not. Lucky is my cat.

Leah D:

I usually think about how my climax will be and how soon I’ll get there.

Gloria A:

Is anyone hearing us?

Paulette F:

I’m wondering what our four-month-old is doing.

Priscilla N:

What if I tear somewhere or damage something?

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