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When the sex is bad
All Woman, Relationships
 on December 15, 2015

When the sex is bad

By VANESSA E CHAMBERS 

So you’ve been with your partner for a while now, and they can’t seem to please you sexually. And no matter how many times you tell them, they just don’t seem to get it. You love them just fine otherwise, but you’re frustrated. Would you leave your partner over their poor bedroom skills?

Pauli, 26:

Yes. If I have spoken to her time and time again and there is no improvement, then why should I stay and be miserable?

Norval, 36:

These are the reasons why some men cheat. No man is going to be happy in a relationship where the sex is on life support. At some point it is going to die, then what?

Collin, 29:

Let us be practical, a relationship is not just based on sex, but sex is like that glue that holds it all together, and it seeps through every part of the relationship. Now if the sex is bad then there is a bad vibe that has now come into the relationship. And for a man like me, the sex has to be there to hold me. If not, I’m gone.

Chelsey, 33:

If I have to keep talking to him then something is wrong. But I’m not going to just give up on him like that. Some men have to be taught the art of lovemaking. Some have been trained, but only a few have mastered it.

Camila, 28:

I would have to leave, sorry, but it is what it is. I’m sure if the shoe was on the other foot he would leave me.

Franklin, 38:

If this woman has all other qualities that I’m looking for I don’t think I could just leave her like that, not over sex. You’re not going to find all the qualities you want in one person. So if the sex is the only problem I would stay and keep trying.  

Peter, 35:

I would stay but I wouldn’t be happy and chances are I would be tempted to stray. The minute that temptation comes into play it means that yes, I might cheat on her.

Ricky, 24:

I would have to leave because sex means a lot to me and I’d much rather leave her than cheat on her.

Monica, 30:

Men are not the only ones who get frustrated over a non-performing partner. I would have to go if it wasn’t working.

Anthony, 33:

If I loved her I wouldn’t leave her just because she wasn’t pleasing me sexually. I would stay with her and keep trying and even if it doesn’t work, I would stay by her side. Good women are hard to find and I’d much rather have a good woman.

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