Bedroom habits that could be upsetting your wife
AFTER dating for a while most people become comfortable in relationships and their true colours begin to show. However, while your partner will inevitably accept some of your habits, there are others that will irk them no matter how hard they try to ignore.
According to romance author Richie Drenz, when it comes to women, most times some of these habits take place in the bedroom, and while compromise is part of every relationship, there are some things that your wife or girlfriend will not settle for. Moreso, he said if these issues are unresolved, it could lead to a potential breakdown of the relationship.
Below Drenz shares some bedroom habits that could be demoralising your female partner.
1. Keeping silent
Drenz said women are talkers by nature, so when men keep silent and refuse to talk in the bedroom, especially during sex, it will drive any woman crazy.
2. Being too gentle
The romance author said women at times like a little ‘roughing up’ when it comes to intercourse, and extreme gentleness can be discouraging.
3. Smelly feet and body parts
“Some man have cheesy foot and that is a turn-off to women especially if you take off your shoes in the bedroom,” Drenz said. He added that if this is a habit for a man, eventually the woman will become frustrated and raise hell.
4. Hairy or hairless situations
This, according to Drenz, has to do with how women like their men. But he pointed out that the same way some men hate to see too much hair on women’s private parts, the same goes for men. “Groom yourselves properly,” he said.
5. Cologne overdose
“Believe it or not, people enjoy the natural scent of each other. When you bathe in cologne it leaves a bitter taste in your mouth when you kiss the individual’s neck. It can also set off allergies,” Drenz said.
6. No foreplay
The romance author said rushing to have sex does not usually rest well with women. “Take time out to enjoy the moment and ensure some amount of romance and foreplay is injected. This will leave her feeling more satisfied,” he said.
7. Too much screen time
Watching too much television in the bedroom may upset your spouse, even if she doesn’t say it out loud. “If you’re simply interested in television and disturb your spouse when she is trying to rest, or never have time to speak because your favourite action show is going on, your wife or girlfriend could be silently stirring with anger and falling apart,” Drenz said.
8. Eating in the bed
Drenz said consuming food that will leave crumbs in the bed is a no-no for women. “Clean sheets and a room free of rodents are usually at the top of her list when it comes to cleanliness. Any woman will cringe knowing her man is comfortable crumbing up the bed,” he said.
9. Being untidy
If you’re a man who leaves everything behind him and expects your woman to clean up after you, you’re in for trouble. “While she may smile and do this, leaving your clothes all over the bedroom or your dirty underwear on the bed will have her stewing internally,” the romance author said.
10. Going to bed with unresolved issues
Drenz said women are talkers, so going to bed angry and not talking out issues before sleeping or constantly sweeping them under the carpet will eat her up inside and eventually she’ll explode arguing.
