How fair is the term ‘deadbeat dad’?

WITH the prevalence of single-mother families, is it fair to think that most Jamaican men are just not interested in being part of their children’s lives? Or are the mothers painting a grimmer picture than the reality actually represents? For example, fathers are expected to provide financially for their children. However, it seems as if that is the only role that is emphasised, so the children are kept from fathers who are unable to pay. Is that fair? Should fathers be kept from their children because of financial difficulties?

Father’s Day is celebrated this month, and the next edition of Girlfriendz – Cocktailz and Conversations is dedicated to examining and celebrating fatherhood.

Fathers’ Day is not usually greeted with the kind of fanfare and celebration associated with Mothers’ Day, and one can argue that the lacklustre approach is indicative of how society treats fathers overall. It is clear that there are men who have not stepped up to the responsibility of fatherhood, and that there are many children growing up without this male figure in their lives.

This staging’s panel discussion will be centred on the theme, ‘How fair is the term deadbeat dad?’ It will be on June 5 at 100 (100 Hope Road) on the roof.

Shelly-Ann ‘Dr Sexy-Ann’ Weeks, relationship coach and creator of the event, says she takes pride is discussing topics that are usually considered taboo.

The panel is made up of mostly men, and will feature broadcaster Rodney Campbell, actor Jerry Benzwick, anthropologist and Fathers Inc president Dr Herbert Gayle, dancehall Artist Paul Gaynor of Twins of Twins, and marketer Noran Price, among others.

In addition to the panel discussion, patrons can win amazing prizes as a part of the games and giveaways. Weeks will give sex and relationship tips; and there will be live performances with music by New Star Entertainment.

“Fathers are important to the fibre of society but they don’t get enough credit when they step up,” said Weeks.

“The fact is, many young fathers have not only stepped up, they have become very active in their children’s lives.”