If you could warn your ex’s new girl, would you?
IN every relationship partners create bonds, getting to know each other very well. They become aware of each other’s charms and flaws; and some flaws become unbearable, resulting in nasty break-ups. When the relationship ends, you may see your ex with a new flame and feel sorry for what she will have to endure, as Whitney Houston warns Deborah Cox in the song Same Script Different Cast. Would you go so far as to warn the new flame of what’s to come, or would you leave her to face the music for herself?
I actually did once. The girl was underage and also my cousin. While I acknowledged that he was an awesome dude on some levels, I told her about his negative qualities. She didn’t listen, and he gave her a fair share of baked goods and cheese.I wouldn’t warn her. Let her experience him for herself.Depending on my mood, I would tell her he’s a self-centred, manipulative jerk who cares only about himself. He’s immature and he hates responsibilities, so if she wants kids she can scratch that off the list.No, I would not warn her. I don’t want anything to do with my ex and his new relationships. I had a bad experience, but maybe he won’t be the same in this new relationship. I’d allow her to have her own experiences with him. Who knows? Maybe she’s the one for him.I wouldn’t warn her. I’d let them be, otherwise she might think I’m a hater of her newfound love.I’d warn her if I could gain her trust and speak with her privately without him knowing…only under those circumstances.No way! She caused our break-up, so let her get the bad end of the stick now.
Monique:
I actually did once. The girl was underage and also my cousin. While I acknowledged that he was an awesome dude on some levels, I told her about his negative qualities. She didn’t listen, and he gave her a fair share of baked goods and cheese.
DP:
I wouldn’t warn her. Let her experience him for herself.
Christina:
Depending on my mood, I would tell her he’s a self-centred, manipulative jerk who cares only about himself. He’s immature and he hates responsibilities, so if she wants kids she can scratch that off the list.
Kayon:
No, I would not warn her. I don’t want anything to do with my ex and his new relationships. I had a bad experience, but maybe he won’t be the same in this new relationship. I’d allow her to have her own experiences with him. Who knows? Maybe she’s the one for him.
V:
I wouldn’t warn her. I’d let them be, otherwise she might think I’m a hater of her newfound love.
JT:
I’d warn her if I could gain her trust and speak with her privately without him knowing…only under those circumstances.
Stacy:
No way! She caused our break-up, so let her get the bad end of the stick now.
