Are you wrong to be insecure around a cheater?
Many people are fearful to trust after a serious bump in the relationship road; it is not easy to trust after you have been betrayed. And if you have decided to work on it nonetheless and have managed to rekindle a fire that died, there are certain emotions that will come with that second chance.
Are you wrong to feel insecure when he cheated before?
Starr:
My man cheated and even though we are still together, I don’t trust him and I am always insecure about his every move. But I do love him so I decided to overlook what was done to me and just try to make the best of us. Plus we have a daughter together so it’s really not that easy for me to walk away.
CT:
I think we women have built-in thing that just tells us when something is off, and that intuition is always correct. I was dating this guy and even though he was super sweet and handsome, I was just insecure about him. I just felt there was someone else. I continued to ignore my guts and boom, I found out over social media that this guy was married. I confronted him and his story was that he was separated. But I couldn’t go any further. Too much drama!
Billy:
Once a guy cheats on me, I am done. I would never feel safe again.
Mick B:
Insecurity has nothing to do with loyalty but everything to do with who you are. You have some women who are insecure before you even say hi – it is like they expect a man to cheat and if he doesn’t, it is a problem, or he’s ‘soft’.
