I don’t want kids or marriage
Some women are genuinely serious when they say it out loud and proud that they don’t desire children or marriage. They prefer to live their lives free of commitment, as they tie commitment to drama and strongly believe that the fewer strings attached, the more peace evolved.
Below some women share why they chose this lifestyle:
JY:
I watched my parents’ relationship go from getting married to having five children, to infidelity, fights and divorce. I’d rather not to put an innocent life through that, and I’d rather have a relationship without the string attached called “marriage”.
Kris:
I have more peace and less stress. I was married several years ago and that marriage revealed to me that I am better off without marriage or kids. I love my life at present. I am currently dating someone and he knows what I am about. I already conditioned my heart and life so that if he should cheat or leave I am equipped to deal with that. I am at peace.
Chantelle:
The way relationships are going these days, I made a decision to go celibate several years ago. I haven’t had sex in years, nor am I craving it. I do not desire marriage or a family as some would put it. I am not ready to be in a relationship. I love my world and believe it or not, I am happy being single and disengaged.
MS:
I am most happy when I am not in a relationship. I gained back my body weight, my skin glows, and my business is blooming. Last year this time I was distressed as I was getting out of a bad relationship and over a miscarriage. I took the miscarriage as a sign and I decided to get my tubes tied. I do have sex with a friend but it’s nothing serious. I love my life at the moment. I am content.
TA:
I am better off with no kids and no marriage. I have seen how that can tear people down. I won’t be a victim.
