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Dirty words and deeds
All Woman, Relationships
 on August 1, 2017

Dirty words and deeds

By Miss Kes 

How far is too far when it comes to looking for some spice in the bedroom? Is it disrespectful, for example,  for a man to talk dirty to a woman? Should she just see it as for pleasure and spontaneity?

SJ:

It is total disrespect and if my man goes there, he will be a single man. I don’t play those games and do those levels of freakiness.

Tracy:

We were getting it on and this guy started to pull on my weave and call me names I cannot quote here. That was the first and last time he glimpsed my body. Once it gets dirty, I am out. It is deplorable and it is sad that some women settle for this, but I am not one of those.

TC:

I love dirty talk – it keeps the fire alive. Once it is in the bedroom, I see nothing wrong with it. But if you are more on the conservative side, get you a man who fits that criteria, and if you are outgoing sexually like me, get you man who will do what you like.

CM:

Spice and I have a lot in common. That song Sheet is my favorite at the moment. I am into dirty talk and rough loving. I see it as pleasure. If he calls me that outside of the bedroom now, that is a different thing.

Sasha-Gaye:

I am not allowing that, no way, no how. It is total disrespect and women need to get back to good standards. Men must treat woman like queens.

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