Comparing loves
Women like to know that they are special, and so it can be especially annoying if a man is comparing you to an ex, as shared by the women below.
TK:
My man used to talk about his ex so much, I got sick to the stomach. I started to wonder if he really wanted to be with me or if I was just a means to an end. Ladies, once your man starts to compare you with his ex whether it is good or bad comparisons, shut it down. I am not saying you cannot talk about the past, but avoid sitting on it.
Tanisha:
My man compared me to his ex-lover all the time. He was always saying that I was much better but after a while, I started to feel uncomfortable. I was always being compared and though in a good way, I started to wonder if he did that with her and because they didn’t work out, he was bashing her. Comparisons are simply not healthy for a relationship.
AK:
I was tired of being compared and I was tired to hear about the past and what went good and what went wrong. I heard of nothing about building a future, but just past, past, past. Ladies, if you’re not hearing about your future, walk away.
Moya:
If you are being compared, it is clear that you are just a whitewash for that individual. That man is still strung up on his ex love. Move on with your life.
KN:
Once your self-esteem is threatened, move on with your life.
