5 signs you’re not his number one

Love is a scary place to be in emotionally. You want to be assured that your heart is not being toyed with, and at the same time you don’t want to be paranoid and spin innocent actions out of proportion. But what happens when there’s that niggling feeling that something is amiss, something that threatens to shatter that peace of mind and confidence in your man’s fidelity?

Fact is, a man will tell a woman all kinds of things to cover his tracks when he is playing gamess, but there are signs that will surely tell you that he’s putting his hand into someone else’s cookie jar.

1. You are a secret

If your dates are hidden and are mostly indoors, it is quite possible that he is hiding you from colliding with his secret life. When a man has nothing to hide, he is upfront. But constantly keeping you behind doors and in-between sheets can be an indicator that you should run.

2. His cell-phone on silent/airplane mode when he is around you

That is an immediate red flag and should not be pushed under the carpet. Question that because that is evidence that he is fearful of getting calls that he clearly doesn’t want you to deal with.

3. He said he has female friends but you haven’t been introduced to any

Why aren’t you known to his social circle? Really think hard about this. Maybe they know too much and he is afraid the truth may slip out indirectly by their interactions and reactions to you being his “partner”.

4. Whenever he is driving with you, the windows have to be up

This is totally understandable in the summer time, but if the temperature is low and he still insists on driving Siberia style, maybe he is worried about who might see and who might carry the news back to his real woman.

5. Whenever you confront him on an issue, his escape is sex

You are worth more than sex, but he uses this to blind your eyes from what you need to see.