Cheating signs
Infidelity is probably the number one reason why people part, but it’s a feature of many relationships. How do you know your partner is cheating? It’s often hard to tell, but there are a few key signs:
Women:
1. Always checking her phone. Maybe she is checking messages, but if she claims you are special to her and you are her one and only, when around you, shouldn’t her attention be on you?
2. She has loads of cash but works at a fast food joint, or worse, is unemployed. That sounds a bit suspicious. If you didn’t give her, someone else did…
3. She refuses to see you or uses the ‘it’s that time of the month’ or the headache story more times than is scientifically possible. This means she doesn’t care about getting close to you.
4. Taking off her ring. If your wife is not wearing her ring, she could possibly be announcing to the world that she’s single.
Men
1. Wandering eyes. We’re not saying that a guy can’t stare at eye candy, but when he is always besotted by other women, it’s a clear indication that you’re not part of his future.
2. Hiding his phone. He is always stealthy when receiving and sending messages or if he gets a phone call, his escape is, “I’ve got to take this one outside”. You should ask why. If you are exclusive to this man, there should be no secrets or hidden agenda.
3. Your sex life is unremarkable. All you get is a sleeping man beside you at night. It could be that he is genuinely tired, but it could also mean he doesn’t find you sexy enough anymore or he is tired from his girl on the side. Pay close attention to this one.
4. You find women’s garments in your house/car. Then:
“Whose are these?”
“Baby, it is yours”
“Uhm, I wear a 36C and this is a 32B”
This is one you should not ignore. Clearly, if you find a piece of clothing or other property that you know doesn’t belong to you, he had someone in the house or car who may be subtly leaving signals for you. This is not only disrespectful but it is also a clear indication that you are not respected and he is willing to risk it all to lose you.
