Turn up the heat
All Woman, Relationships
 on October 21, 2017

Turn up the heat

By Miss Kes 

Below are seven tips for those who desire to have a long-lasting intimate relationship.

1. Explore your fantasies

Don’t be timid or afraid to share with your partner your deepest desires. Be bold and be open even if it doesn’t work in your favour. Always remember that your fantasies don’t necessarily have to please your partner, but present them in a manner that spells out what you desire.

2. Surprise your partner

When sex becomes monotonous, it can lead to infidelity. Surprise your partner with something creative and seductive.

3. Engage in early morning fun

There is something exciting about a.m. coitus that sets the mood for the rest of the day. Give your partner something to remember at work all day.

4. Be creative

Use your knowledge of your partner and your senses to do something your partner will never forget.

5. Use technology

We spend most of our time communicating via technology so make it work for you. Write the teaser texts and send the suggestive pictures. Use it to rekindle the flame.

6. Become the master of foreplay

Foreplay sets the mood and the direction for where the intimacy is going. Spend time to know what exactly your partner likes and dislikes and use that information to turn them on like never before.

7. Push pride aside

When it comes to intimacy, there is no shade. Be ready to go all out or you will be left behind.

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