Are you the one killing your relationship?
Relationships are hard work, and it is imperative that you put in the necessary labour to sustain things, or you could possibly ruin a perfect love story.
Are you the one hammering the nails in your relationship coffin? Could you be doing this without even realizing?
Below are some signs:
Insecurity
Do you often wonder why your mate would want to be with you or why they love you, even though nothing is wrong in the relationship? This smacks of insecurity and you need to release these feelings and enjoy your partner before these feelings take over.
Putting the needs of others before your partner’s
Always remember that when you engage in a relationship, you are basically joining yourself as one to another individual. Do not take it for granted that you already have someone and so you neglect their needs and put more emphasis on the needs of others.
Lack of support
If your partner wants to be something great and you show no support, then you are basically telling your partner that their dreams, goals and aspirations are useless and mean nothing to you. A healthy relationship requires full support, even if the dream sounds ridiculous to you.
Too many noses
When you involve your friends and family, you are cooking a perfect meal to kill your relationship. A relationship is between two persons and should remain that way. When there are conflicts, and there will be conflicts, keep them within the relationship. If it is that you desire a third opinion, seek out a professional.
No intimacy
If you are not making love or thinking about making love with your partner, you are killing that relationship. The meaning of an intimate relationship is to explore intimacy and if you find that you have a lack of interest, it is time to rekindle that spark before it is too late and your partner steps out.
