I want him, but she’s in the way
Getting a man’s attention can be tricky enough, add to that the challenge when he’s already involved with someone else, or is heavily pursued.
This is the dilemma shared with us by Chantelle L, in a cry for advice.
“There’s this guy at my company that I desire with all my heart. He is my ideal man. I love how he looks, his sense of fashion, and he is well educated – just perfect. Thing is, he is the perfect catch for others and boy is this a challenge, as another co-worker also desires him and she is in my way. What should I do?
Other readers dish out advice below:
GH:
My advice is to let him choose who he wants. No woman should be running down any man. If he knows what he is looking for, he will make that decision. Girl, please chill and let God work.
Tina:
It is not about the other woman. Just build a strong connection with him, letting him know your true heart. When I met my husband, he was a magnet for women, but I ensured I was true to myself and genuine in my connection with him. He made his choice – me – and we now have a family.
Sherry:
Once you feel like you’re in a competition, stay out of that confusion. Love is not a competition.
Bridge:
I would step to that woman and tell her to back the hell up. Some women only want men when they see that other women want them.
