I spy an ex
Some people find it so challenging to move on after a break-up, that they resort to often sinister measures to satisfy their curiosity about what their former mates are up to.
Because when you miss someone so much that you can hardly breathe, you stalk them, as shared by the women below.
Sherene:
I have to be straight out honest. I loved my ex and when he left me I literally spied on his new woman. I wish I hadn’t done it though, because she looks really good, and then I saw that they had got engaged. I was literally on his social media accounts everyday until I could no longer bear it. Now I know that it is best to let sleeping dogs lie.
Jody:
Every woman spies on her ex to see if he has picked up someone worse. Truth is, we want our exes to be depressed and ‘pop dung’, that’s just the truth. So yes, I look on Facebook to see what’s going on.
Rylan:
Every woman does this, I am one and I am being real – especially if you and the man had strong history and chemistry.
Denisha:
I have, and I still do. It is not like I want him back, I just want to ‘fass’ inna him business, and I see that him business a spoil – that’s what he gets for leaving me for a lawyer girl. I’m watching his life on Instagram like it’s a TV show.
Deandra:
I used to spy until I saw that he engaged his new lady after two months, and I was with him for seven years. That was real hurtful so I stopped. The less I see, the better for me.
