Getting there… almost
Studies have shown that many women have never hit the high notes in the bedroom in all their lives; others utilise other means to reach the zenith. How prevalent is this locally? The women below share.
JT:
I faked orgasms right throughout my last relationship. It was really frustrating, having come from an ex who would ensure that I reached the mountains before he began climbing. I would have to help myself out quite often to stay loyal. The man just did not have a clue how to make love. It was sad and many women are struggling and I am here to say, do not punish yourself because you are afraid to be single.
Anna-Kay:
I think a lot of women suffer with this and yes, I was one, and I had to break off the relationship because I was tired of feeling sexually frustrated.
Sandy:
I am not the only guilty one. Yes, I have faked it many times with my man, but I am teaching him where my spots are and he is a fast learner. I realise that a lot of men are unaware of what pleases their women and they use so many incorrect mediums to teach them. So I am teaching my man in a playful way and he doesn’t even know I am teaching him.
CD:
I have faked it with my husband for years. I self-pleasure when he is not around. I love him and I am not about to cheat on him so I do what I must to ensure I am satisfied, and many wives can attest to this.
