Would you tell if you found out that a family member was being cheated on?
Sometimes it’s best to stay out of people’s intimate affairs, and allow them to work their problems out themselves. Many people take this stance because they’ve been burnt in the past after they intervened in a situation they thought needed aid, and the party they hoped to help ended up resenting them for butting in.
But when it comes to issues like deception, would this refusal to become involved also stand? Would you tell if you found out that a family member was being cheated on?
Bridgette:
I would think twice, to be honest, because I once did that when I caught my aunt’s man and a woman out together and I trailed them to a hotel in New Kingston and I know what they booked the room to do. I told my aunt everything and she turned around and cursed me out, saying that I wanted her man and I didn’t want to see her happy because no man wanted me. So I’d think twice.
Rose:
I definitely would. I cannot stand by and know that my family is getting hurt and I say nothing. Blood is thicker than water.
Shereen:
I literally walked in on moaning and groaning one weekend when I went to visit my mother and when I peeped through the door thinking my mother and my stepfather were getting busy, it was him and my mother’s so-called friend. I shared this with my mother and yes, she was hurt, but it prevented her from marrying him. I almost killed him too. I’m a snitch once my family is involved.
Andrene:
Without a doubt I would. Family first, that’s the order.
Krystal:
Yes I would, for sure. Why would I watch a cousin or sister or anyone in my family getting used and not say something?
