Dating mistakes made by women online
All Woman, Relationships
 on June 23, 2018

Dating mistakes made by women online

By Miss Kes 

Seeking love online is never easy, but if it is done correctly, it can end in success.  Here are the top three dating mistakes made by women online.

1. Too much posting of yourself

This sends the wrong message that you are totally self-absorbed and no man seeking a serious relationship is looking for a selfish partner. It is wise to do everything in moderation. It is not that you cannot post, just monitor how many times you post.

2. Exposing every detail of your days, months and years

When a man sees that he will think twice because he will be concerned about whether everything he says or does will be posted too. Social media is a place where people connect and socialise but it is also be a place where you will be judged by what you share and how often you share it.

3. Having no filter

Some women have no filter about what they share and so they will post about exes, current partners, and all the drama for the whole world to be exposed to. It will send anyone looking at your profile thinking you are an excellent catch, running. It is best to keep private matters private.

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