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Why he won’t commit
All Woman, Relationships
 on June 23, 2018

Why he won’t commit

By Miss Kes 

What are some of the blockers that prevent men from committing? We asked several men to comment.

David:

Well, if a woman tells me that she is well experienced,  it is best we have lots of sex but no relationship. I cannot commit to someone who every other man has experienced. It is just not what I’m looking for.

Archie:

I won’t commit if she cannot cook, clean and wash. I am not seeking a helper, I am seeking a wife, and if I am going to commit which means be there for her, she has to know her role as my wife and woman.

Tremaine:

If a woman has a sex history like the pages in the good book, it’s a huge turn off. I like exclusivity so my woman should be immaculate in every way. I cannot wife a woman who has a seriously long sexual history. I prefer a humbling spirit by my side.

Kirk:

I cannot commit to a loud mouth and a domineering woman. I am the man so if my woman cannot respect my role as the head, it makes no sense because some things I see men enduring these days just to say they are in a relationship, it’s real sad. I just cannot settle for that type of woman no matter how sexy and attractive she is.

Bryan:

I cannot commit to any woman who gives in to me easily. Once she can throw that cookie to me, I will think she is playing frisbee with every man so that is my first test for any woman I am dating.

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