Time to say goodbye
If you are seeking a lifelong bond and you see someone coming with no agenda to commit, it is best to dismiss yourself from their circle immediately. But what if you are already in a relationship waiting patiently for the day your man will commit and take the relationship to the next level? Here’s a guide for saying goodbye.
Give an ultimatum and mean it
Do not just say it to say it, but mean it! If he loves you and wants you he will think about it and give you an answer.
You deserve better, so live like you do
You do not need to sit and wait on anyone to love you back especially if it has been months or years. You do not have to sit and wait because you deserve better. If you are sitting and waiting for months for someone to make up their minds if they want to be with only you, stop waiting and move on.
Seek motivation
Sometimes what a person needs is someone to tell them it is okay to make that decision that is in their best interest. You may need to vent to someone else and you may get some encouragement to give the ultimatum or move on.
Do not take excuses
If all he is giving you are excuses, he is simply wasting your time.
Dismissal
If nothing changes after the ultimatum, dismiss him.
