Guys, would you search your woman’s phone?
So you’ve started noticing some changes in your girlfriend’s behaviour — she’s always on her phone, she no longer leaves it lying around the house, and she even takes it in the bathroom when she is about to take a shower.
Every other second she gets a message, and you’ve even watched her face light up when she reads her messages.
You ask her what’s up with the phone situation, and she says she is just helping some friend of hers go through a break-up. But you don’t know of her having a friend with the name she gave you.
One day she leaves her phone on the kitchen counter while rushing out. You know she won’t be back for hours. What do you do? Would you search your woman’s phone?
Errol, 40:
I wouldn’t wait on her to leave it because the minute I suspect that something isn’t right, I’m going to search it right in front of her.
Garth, 36:
I remember talking to this girl and every waking minute she was on her phone. I asked to see her phone and she cursed me out saying that I wasn’t a man because only women search phones. At that point I told her she had something to hide because I only asked to see her phone, not search it. I left her house and broke up with her via Whatsapp, as she was always on the app anyway. She told me again that I wasn’t a man because I couldn’t even call her to tell her that it was over. So I flooded her phone with emojis of a broken heart and she blocked me.
Roger, 32:
I wouldn’t hesitate to go through her phone. Some women are so sneaking and lie, that you have to always keep your eyes on them.
Jonathan, 29:
My ex and I broke up because of her phone. It was like having a third person in our relationship. I had all access to it, so her cheating on me wasn’t the issue, it was the fact that she lived on it 24/7. She had no time for me so I had to walk away.
Sammy, 34:
I had an issue with my child’s mother and her phone. I knew something was up the day she put a lock on it. I tried to get it away from her by asking her if I could look for a number or get some of her credit, but it never worked because she would either tell me the contact number I wanted or she’d say she didn’t have any credit. Every time she was on the phone and I came near her, she kept telling the person she would have to call them back. So one day I just asked her if she was seeing someone else and she said no. I asked her again, and she said no. I asked her for her phone, she said no. Everything was no, so I grabbed it from her and asked her to unlock it. She didn’t want to, but eventually she did and I went through her messages and found all sorts of nasty, sexual conversations she was having with a man. I asked her if she wanted to end our relationship and she said no, so I told her to call the man and end their relationship and she complied. Then I took the phone to the open lot beside my house and burned it. We broke up a few months later when she met another man and started another phone romance.
Claine, 26:
I would go through her phone, why not? She would do the same to me!
Hopeton, 29:
My woman goes through my phone all the time. I have nothing to hide but she has never given me a reason to go through hers. I don’t care to know who she is talking to, so no, I wouldn’t go through her phone. If I suspected that she was cheating, I would just end it, and if I did I go through her phone I would do so in front of her face.
