When the thrill is gone
Not everyone can perform at 100 per cent capacity 100 per cent of the time, which means that at some point in a relationship, the sex may be less than stellar.
We’ve all experienced it — it’s that period when some women plan the next day’s menu and some men think of football; when things get so monotonous that the mind strays.
What do you do when the sex is boring?
Keron:
Sex is a mind thing for a man as much as it is for a woman. When I’m not at the top of my game I am honest with my girlfriend, and I’ll tell her sorry. Like any mature woman, she understands.
Samantha:
When things are going downhill I know that my boyfriend loves when I talk dirty to him and when I’m dominating him. I simply just start doing this and it’s usually enough to make bad sex really great sex.
Dayle:
I know when my girlfriend isn’t having fun, and of course we have had that a few times. I usually just return to foreplay because that usually gets her excited enough. Then we try what gets her most alive, and that usually works.
Terry-Ann:
I have faked an orgasm so that he would just stop, hurry up and have his own so that the most boring 10 minutes of my life would be over.
Amanda:
Have you seen Asafa Powell’s body? The most boring sex could miraculously be transformed if I imagine that Asafa is my man. A few other celebrities like Drake and Chris Brown could also pass too. Thank God for them, or boring sex would just be too painful to tolerate.
Hayley:
I check to see what’s up with Papi. It could be that he’s tired, and if that’s the case I would understand and simply allow him to satisfy his ego by finishing up, or try to let him know it’s okay.
