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Poor performer
All Woman, Confessions
 on May 5, 2016

Poor performer

By VANESSA E CHAMBERS 

SO you have fallen heavily in like with a partner who fulfils all your wants and needs. Well, all but one, and that is in the sex department.  And based on your poor sex life, you are finding it hard to commit your heart to the relationship because you need to be satisfied sexually. As simple as this may sound to others, for some the lack of good sex can be a deal breaker in a relationship.

If your mate was a poor performer, would you stay or would you go?

Abigale, 27:

I wouldn’t be happy so I couldn’t stay. I can’t force myself to be happy with a man in a sexless relationship. These types of things will lead me to stray and I’m not that girl, so I would rather end it and move on.

Tara, 33:

I would try and work on it. No relationship is perfect and if he loves me and treats me better than any man that I have ever been with, then I would stay.

Adam, 36:

Not every woman is going to be able to please every man, likewise not every man is going to be able to please every woman. There just has to be a compromise and sacrifice made if you decide to be with someone who can’t please you. Personally, I would much rather be with a woman who can please me.

Gordon, 38:

I am willing to work with someone who is willing to try and make it work. If she isn’t going to try and please me and feels confident in her sexual ability to be boring, then I will call it a day. She can’t say I never tried.

Conroy, 29:

There would be no time to build a relationship, because from the second I go there and realise that her sex score is way below average, I’m gone. Sex is very important to me.

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